To the woman who has a big, God-given dream, but not quite sure how to make it happen.
To the creative entrepreneur who has all the knowledge, the degrees, and the experience to be fully equipped for the next chapter of your life and business, but still unsure what the next steps are.
To lady who’s brave enough to start over again to chase after what she really wants.
This letter is for you.
If I could sit across the coffee table from you, look you in those jaded yet hopeful eyes, and tell you one piece of encouragement, it would be this:
Trust that your ideas matter and they have meaning. Trust that you’re not crazy for wanting to change, grow, or pivot your business, and that this is the start of something new. Trust that you don’t have to do it like everyone else is doing, and that you can lean into your own instincts to show you the way. Trust that you have the ability to learn what you need to, the capacity to expand your definition of what’s possible, and the choice to do it in a way that feels true to you.
It seems so simple, but why is it so hard?
Because just like in every other relationship, trust is built over time. And just like in other relationships, trust can be broken in an instant and hard to recover.
It may be hard to trust yourself because…
You’ve made mistakes in the past and are giving yourself a hard time.
You know what you want, but every time you go after it, it cost you something personal.
You’ve grown and evolved so much and became a different person, that you need some time to reconnect with what makes you you.
If that’s the case, then here’s what you can try….build trust with yourself, as if you were building trust with your best friend.
Just like when you’re meeting a new friend and ask about their interests….you can ask yourself “What do you want?” and “Why do you want it?”
Just like when you give grace to your daughter for making a silly mistake….you can extend yourself some grace too when you’re attempting something new.
Just like when you love others unconditionally…you can start to listen to your instincts instead of looking to others for approval or advice.
It just takes some intentionality, but you can do it.
Choose to get clear on your intent, give yourself grace, and trust yourself again.